My boyfriend just broke up with me and I totally understand why and I feel so awful and I just wanna fix things?

So he’s been very busy with college and I have not been the best girlfriend. I can’tlie I have gotten really badly into smoking weed. we used to smoke all the time in the summer he used to be a huge pothead but as he’s gotten into college he really hasn’t been smoking much. He just kind of does homework all week and then the weekend he might drink a bit. But I smoke every day. I have been smoking with my deelers lately one of which used to be friends with my boyfriend and said something right before me and my boyfriend started dating about how he wanted to have sex with me. My boyfriend asked me not to hangout with him but I did because if I smoked with him he gave me free weed. My boyfriend got really mad and asked me not to anymore. But last night I was bored and I went to the dealers house and i lied and told my boyfriend I was at home but he knew I was lying because he showed up to surprise me with flowers... he went off on me called me fake and said that I don’t respect him and that we’re done

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If your instincts are working u already knew u were on a sinking ship. Yeah most of us know but when we are young we are forced eventually to face the truth. It's a crying heartbreak even so.

just give it some time

You need to grow up a bit.

Yeah for him to be rid of you.He is planning his future by studying and getting someplace in life besides being a pot head without a direction!GOOD FOR for realizing you are on a one way street!

He probably just doesn't know how to deal with your problem.Just as there are fair weather friends, there are fair weather partners as well.Some just want to be there for you through the good times and not the bad.When you're ready I'd suggest you get into counseling and rehab.Try to engage in something you enjoy, that will keep your mind off him, and off weed too, hopefully.It mind take some time, but as you journey through your growth you might discover a satisfying niche that might help you to cope with life's stresses and disappointments.

I gotta feeling there will be no fixing this. You lied to him and you broke the trust he had in you. He will probably never trust you again so you might as well go back to your dealer, have sex with him so he will continue to give you your weed for free.

he needs to find someone who cares about him and someone who will he there forever
its going to be you all you need to do is get clean and promise him no more drugs and be good and make that trust and dont let him down , you can change you can do it you just need to change your thinking like this
be a good girlfriend to him
be there for him allways
be really under standing and being far away you can hold on till he gets back

You been doing things with the dealer and your boyfriend knows it. Some men are aware if female nature you might wanna be more discreet and careful.

Yeah I don’t see why he would wanna be with you he’s busy and doesn’t wanna have to worry if his girlfriends getting gang banged by the deelers